my young co-worker lost her mom, dad is ill and injured. She takes care of everyone at home, 24-7. I take her for lattes at lunch one or two times per week, we talk about lite stuff. I tell her she is doing a great job helping her family and that God sees her. He cares. I encourage her when I can and we are called the the “latte posse” at work. God has a sense of humour for sure.